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生活中的5个球
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. T x4 v0 _, u/ n% B可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson
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1 s9 s) h6 I% J4 y1 F设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。
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* f5 e- ?$ O; _ W你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。7 M) c2 r, G2 U! {$ b
/ R% X( h$ l' M" ^你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。0 o8 k6 `8 S* [" N
, t$ V! @. i/ K$ K怎样才能做好?
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2 E& p) @9 R B4 Y- A$ {' n# R; ?1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。9 e6 G8 V7 G- Q7 F. E1 q) J
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2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。
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1 y: y+ E4 c0 ~% ?: [4 A9 m3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。7 e( c' W* {$ C0 J+ N* S; F
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4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。/ c. s9 L0 K& b& ~: B9 K
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5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。
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' N6 B2 u$ D: t5 S2 b6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。/ P" @$ m0 A$ r* y' ~
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7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。
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) A: p$ }. C$ t4 r6 [& y; t2 T8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。# T0 ^) I1 @# @0 i
/ j& a3 R* V. {7 @9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。' H1 N. F$ P/ W: X8 N* N& ~
; V4 ]- u7 Y9 d4 O* n5 f6 k9 [3 b6 c10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。
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# N1 k& o0 O4 m: j& j8 i S11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。8 g1 F3 m2 v, D8 F8 a2 R% A/ e1 r) y
; z, z! F+ k$ A; g) K! J1 U4 }" g8 K12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。# A% C8 z: K q/ `
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6 _5 R1 w* m2 C/ C! m原文:# H0 T+ N1 q' C2 r* J1 v
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Five Balls Of Life
: O& m1 q0 ?9 a% n' k5 ?This was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.
7 i0 e, A% P3 `; f' ]/ r8 ^It was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:
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Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.) d" \( V5 a1 V# S4 z) P3 n& f
You name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.
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You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.
2 [) @' ?* k9 [! q+ q' a" [. I. `4 RThey will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?
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7 s1 b6 Q5 D. d, x* d1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.9 G: S) J! u$ @' V( d+ P: ]
$ J% t# H' ^* U/ O2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you. e- ?4 D" k6 Q' T3 T b
: ~& s) r$ N. C& b& q6 H1 ~) C3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.
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; L6 x; a0 m a4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.) H2 R6 X# i2 f! K
& ^+ N& Q9 G: ?1 a7 X+ {: X5 J2 E, s5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
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& y/ {% t' F7 P. q$ e6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.
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, G) C7 U# y0 c( P. q, a+ s* f7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
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: m0 u2 c4 k/ z5 L4 p8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.
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9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.
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10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
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9 H# _: ?0 Q' v7 p. i11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.
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, n6 {% G# {9 d12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.
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