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生活中的5个球& \6 \6 c |9 t3 F# x2 A
, `2 w. L6 D6 S4 r Y可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson( q6 Z {5 f; t$ x1 W0 T0 g5 e
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设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。
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5 R W; F8 R5 I6 ~% R6 h0 E& S你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。; ?; |+ w4 V" a# h, \5 ]3 r
& t* m: _8 J y/ }; d3 ]0 m# Y& ^你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。! h! w- N, _0 n
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怎样才能做好?# l" W) `% t. C+ K. `# T5 E# f
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1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。
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4 E6 n5 k# k W, {2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。
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3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。$ N1 ?$ P' T! ^. [$ n* e" f; s& I
7 {+ W* y0 C8 C9 ?% y- C/ |4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。
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1 V/ K% P" Z5 |. P( z/ c: s5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。
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8 f. ^2 a" g5 J: p6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。2 I, j' C; ~$ H# I) d% @
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7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。
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0 o; m9 E' C5 O1 u2 q) k) G, u% `, H8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。( R9 s: f, D5 a& T! f9 t% W4 f/ J
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9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。
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. w, u7 f* H- k10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。9 U* r2 T3 e% @6 f' X/ F& @
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11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。1 |* q0 ~+ I! E. }
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12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。. T5 K- r! i8 @# O! I7 ~5 q
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& d; z0 Y; _- Z+ T2 H原文:* i, E( g) v# \* T0 Q6 S; {7 y
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Five Balls Of Life5 b% V- M* |: W$ H3 e2 \
This was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.
1 @0 W+ e k& ?" F0 mIt was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:4 M' X4 y/ r" t2 [& l
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Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.4 ^/ v8 B* C, Y: l
You name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air." e% M+ A3 y% M$ j* ~- n5 B$ k
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, g. n& ]% @6 VYou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.
; H: e0 N1 V0 O( B _! |They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?. ]% m% b4 k4 T; {
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" D! w; \4 |7 ?1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.
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* E# s& v4 L" ^* r2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.
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3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.
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" M e! _7 l: h) U7 W4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.
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* s" E7 N+ Z1 I: z! @: q5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.6 D2 ^# c6 T. y' D2 ?
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6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.4 K& r2 ?/ t0 _; e5 w6 S2 l5 s
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7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
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8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.) o: }# i5 D0 t
" e1 t* b7 ~+ y; h! z M' J- _% @8 c9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.
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10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
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4 T5 _7 S0 o8 Z8 p8 H11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.
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12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.( N, g$ N1 k- R6 m9 S
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