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生活中的5个球
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0 Q% Y/ ^: l6 ]7 I( M9 V可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson$ ]+ J, D" l- G9 |6 x8 t8 Y
/ C$ _, `! Y, |2 K2 w, \( E$ G* A设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。% g& S1 t" \, F5 j& _' `& i
9 ?9 [ k* f" E4 s, b你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。+ M# \- E! } M* a
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你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。
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- z3 ~) @; b3 P! } b怎样才能做好?
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1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。
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2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。
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3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。9 y3 o2 H, `4 _0 Z: o4 T% E/ ~9 {8 x6 A
" \6 z& H8 w$ [ g" b9 R2 H5 Q1 T+ ~4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。6 t0 E' Y6 h# x) E$ C: t# m
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5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。# j& T+ X: W) r% h' r* v
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6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。
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2 \2 E, m U, A5 v) l5 D& Q5 w3 Y7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。
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8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。
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6 {* p1 L9 Q7 b) u8 y% M7 q% H4 L9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。
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10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。0 }4 A+ k! R/ C. t, P4 L
2 \ Y1 S5 l3 n- T8 y11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。8 S, c9 }9 r) p7 X
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12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。( x0 E5 b% W5 ^: n) @- A# P s
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7 N. }! }1 _; i8 F原文:, p# C0 a6 d; W2 }
! |% [+ B& ~! s5 f4 V: M' dFive Balls Of Life7 l# n! E& y6 ^0 D; L1 Z
This was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.
/ A0 T4 s2 j: UIt was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:
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$ k# N; E6 P% NImagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.$ o4 U+ J4 E( C0 ~! G
You name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.
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0 _4 \8 X, o, i' \You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.
1 O& s. ]1 o. t7 v& h6 D: ^They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?$ a3 O8 s# T* N
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1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.
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2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.# V B# f' {. e$ f5 d1 x. P
' F7 D/ Z0 Y7 Y9 `8 I3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.
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4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.6 L" g' L/ z( [; J. s3 b
2 w" E; o, k6 x: H S" y0 I5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
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6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.
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( p! J/ l7 h) D e" I7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.# {5 F! g ?0 r+ D) `
8 V: z E, z9 a) f' f3 T8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.
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9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.6 b, I% I/ v5 K! B
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10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.0 i, `9 B4 T( m/ T( ^
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11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.
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12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved. p( W$ r% C* G- f! ?! x
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