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生活中的5个球
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可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson S- c$ j. _, b1 ^) |7 @
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设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。& q* K9 z5 [& l4 _! A
+ E- p: p% j2 [1 ?$ T& I你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。( K* ]- i( V7 L4 `- F$ |
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你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。% y3 f' ` b1 g. ]5 |
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怎样才能做好?, o2 i7 H* G A: v
$ X/ i9 p0 Q' G m$ f% L6 G% X1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。
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2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。& i9 Y. r: K. ^& r8 I7 l
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3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。: `1 u- G% M% u9 N& H
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4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。
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5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。 g. v& T( d; h+ W+ g
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6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。2 _" ?- i$ ?( b
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7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。
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: H2 K& W9 h/ ~# R. S; G( ?& g) j8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。
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9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。
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3 W, ~4 b. [- k% R0 ]10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。% c% M$ X% s; i# p2 N
b! l+ G0 g+ c- T11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。
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6 N# V7 w) T1 e12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。9 U& g7 U6 K1 D: T" V
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原文:
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2 O$ \& s# M1 k/ AFive Balls Of Life
& g4 M- O! u6 [/ x' I% nThis was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.2 ?& f1 o6 O. Q4 j6 O* V! y
It was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:9 G. k* R: a9 l9 w: R; ?* Q, d& w9 M
3 E- u: {2 \: Z* R4 h+ jImagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.
W: F9 _3 B, ]" h8 t t' @, j HYou name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.
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' K B& o' Z+ ~4 m: ?; _( {You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.
' Q& A+ f$ q" Z! T- k% A0 gThey will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?' c# x5 B, W+ a
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1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.
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, Y8 E( Z' O5 _2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.
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3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.
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- l1 V7 u1 u- M7 y7 o4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life." u6 V: I1 a8 t2 V# f- X$ a1 ^2 u
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5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
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2 d6 Y: F, k" s7 j& M1 G: p- O$ k6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.
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7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
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% i' ` Z }& ^; L' B8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.
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9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.
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1 C. l _3 ^% K- `10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.( h# G- Y1 I' I: o& C* Q4 Q$ ^
- l `- i4 r% K0 `0 y' E- F11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.3 d N* d* \- o! L; D; m9 O; U; k
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12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.2 e$ `9 ?3 B) V- [1 H) h: M
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