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生活中的5个球( h6 H8 [' R: C
+ q+ m& t- |8 {; I: x7 U; ~可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson
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设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。
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) F: H2 O/ a/ C w你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。
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你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。( b3 F3 V: @1 x" A2 V, G2 o
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怎样才能做好?7 L, L$ A* e3 g) @; x t
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1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。# h( M3 F$ [& I0 S6 {
/ H. O+ ^( v. r; C8 f4 t3 ^; c2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。' r: _* C) q$ i; \* I
4 Q' A+ d2 T% u- o# z' b% {3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。
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4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。+ M) S/ a0 P- }# ]+ N
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5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。- h" J# N* b) Q1 L; m$ N; {
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6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。! N! B' W9 g1 ]0 H/ e
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7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。
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8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。
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9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。6 E+ o8 B# t* u
( I5 {, a0 K/ O; c D6 V: M3 S10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。
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5 ]( `5 M: c) ]/ }4 M. p11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。
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12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。1 c+ p; {4 E- @/ \( p/ E! w8 }
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' {( L' @$ B1 k# c" }) c. r# _5 c原文:
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! b! o# y1 ?6 D3 c) o( @! |Five Balls Of Life0 q; O& d0 G$ l q. E" _8 E6 n. v
This was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.
: G5 A) F% N v5 K$ @) y- i" l; qIt was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:) k" e4 m$ w2 O" Z" {) L
: f: M5 X2 N& Q) w) Y* a. KImagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.
* {# O7 F; m# n5 lYou name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.
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You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.
0 L. I3 ]" M8 H! n2 M- B/ iThey will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?6 e. ?; w3 J" T! M% J9 e: f
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1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.
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- N# R/ Q" B) F% h2 c+ \3 B2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.8 ^$ D6 c; j' g1 @! d- N1 r5 H
$ y Y2 w U6 k8 P# o1 {) |- F3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.7 F% w# j* F; ^
: q7 n; e+ g( ?' j4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.- E4 q3 F7 i- m* I! q1 P- h
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5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.2 N( y T6 ^2 a( g4 c* R' p
4 v5 _% {9 `4 l8 L6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.
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7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.4 f1 s8 Z9 p: Y$ W
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8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.
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+ H. z( x( q' a+ ^1 `' D9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.
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, U) w# J2 u# [5 A0 B10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated." L- }) A% b! n2 t' L# t2 E
$ G& ^( j/ X% w( ?- ~/ n& _11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.
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# W6 Z1 x( Y _$ t" l' H12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.$ F, {" \( y' Y) q8 ?; {- O
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