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生活中的5个球
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可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson
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; }+ d6 H% q9 P3 x. d3 U q设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。
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. T* g, q$ I1 E5 Y# o( H你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。$ B6 L' n& q1 m$ t9 C
a- ?1 x' R$ T0 [, l, c0 k你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。 K2 N; P! U; T9 k1 ^
5 {& }3 D4 b0 d( \8 T4 p! x怎样才能做好?
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1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。
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9 ?0 ~4 S' a N# ^2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。% O$ l1 v$ A. y2 J% ]4 ~. ?
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3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。
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4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。/ q7 y+ T1 C# l" W4 \$ l
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5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。* T8 f5 q7 m8 u6 Y ^* w
; g3 ^7 g- R \* R5 y1 v6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。& I. Y9 V2 E& f6 Y9 M
: h5 T, U1 P3 U: x X$ W- I$ @. _7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。 9 I# i% o) L5 [9 u0 `+ K6 i0 D
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8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。
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9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。
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10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。
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11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。
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2 T# Y% Y9 c' }0 S8 Q12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。4 F+ X- B. p; V+ m# Z
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5 M6 I1 ^) C' O8 h. z% C* W& C原文:
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$ q2 Q# \! r5 H, A1 u2 ?" YFive Balls Of Life
) y- A8 b% z8 @This was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.9 R) M- v/ G# i$ r- B
It was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:" L$ u. L2 O3 k! e; `" G2 P2 d, x
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Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.
4 z" T" P4 G% }3 yYou name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.' f2 u( M9 f7 P6 i0 f
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O5 P U/ s1 R _( JYou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered. |# c1 e0 [% s8 ?; ^0 J
They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?
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; `3 z/ r- `6 L5 a. B1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.
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e9 o3 [! E" T; d% L6 ]2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.; g8 Q5 ~7 l# t: T# _7 U
* v1 Q' m# p3 y& h3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.9 q3 k) M2 i; ~7 o
* i9 p& a: N+ v4 D- @9 \6 }4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.5 p5 m+ B/ _, `( y3 L1 _6 Y
0 P% n4 j) a# ]: z0 r5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.& y, x& ^$ x3 k2 S6 M D+ ~1 ^
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6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.! Y- i- k, _2 G' y
1 g' @) Q: i3 e/ b# j* A# z* Z# U& b7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
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8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.( g7 {0 M7 ]% _$ w7 r
6 T1 |) O: c1 x! {! B9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.
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10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
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# x* l+ c9 G' Q& @+ L4 E0 D2 B" Y11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.
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12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.
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