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生活中的5个球
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! U/ z: r1 \# |2 q/ W可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson6 E" H5 L% P8 l; ^
' C7 N6 i. x t% ~8 m设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。0 i3 d A6 `+ N( A3 Q0 ^
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你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。) M% t+ D* X( h. X
; D' m0 e& C V' I( @$ e9 n你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。7 j5 o7 c0 x0 [: I5 C% s: l0 Z+ h
! D* Z4 R7 W% E& q# b怎样才能做好?
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+ y3 m( o1 M8 T1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。. u4 G3 N+ s" \
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2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。* H" U0 d$ V9 ~* R
, g2 s6 s' r5 r8 t( D T& D4 P) H& |3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。1 k# I( ?5 D" v8 L0 Q! E4 _4 h
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4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。6 M/ E5 k i0 w. W# B4 A
9 g. e+ t5 |" B/ s5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。
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6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。$ [) f0 [! u. p9 l( J( }% ~
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7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。 . H \7 |9 K2 ?
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8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。
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) R6 p v7 C5 U' I/ K5 w& N9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。
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10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。% a. P& k- V d/ }
" g2 m" s" u0 c11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。1 p2 D1 X" {' |) q
- I# J* f# v* p# K12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。2 C3 x' c* t1 R7 H; q) d/ ~
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原文:
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# [; |3 A- {- |5 U2 nFive Balls Of Life6 U$ u. {( T+ L o5 X# R1 S
This was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.
- |3 P6 z* H" S YIt was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:
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Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.9 i$ g) ]8 H" h- t
You name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air., w( |, q2 q" K8 ?+ ]' o; n! V
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You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.
! G5 o# o/ A' pThey will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?2 [' e% a6 z: g, G9 L) {- n9 E7 v# o
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% F* I- G d, W7 c5 ?' l8 Q1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.
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7 h* l v6 O/ X4 u+ z2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.
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3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.
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4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.' Q. W) d0 ]& l7 M
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5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
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: g! R1 B+ M1 D7 s6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.
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7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave." }( F# ]' u, `" |% z
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8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.
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: R [8 z$ G6 f1 e6 ]9 U9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.3 X5 j' L% z6 c* P0 @
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10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
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11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily. W) P) A m, Y$ B+ F/ t# a: L2 k
9 V. r1 v' c. k5 ]) h: U' n2 p1 m& [12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.
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